Well I'm ashamed to admit it but I guess that I am often guilty of being attracted to what looks good. Like Quentin and Willie. IMO Quentin is gorgeous and Willie is adorable. Harry Johnson is ugly IMO, and I am not at all attracted to Barnabas. But I said in a post a few days ago that it's a good thing that everyone isn't attracted the same way. There is a fan on this board who adores Harry Johnson. There are more fans that love Barnabas than Willie, Quentin and all the others combined. Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder.
One thing I think is true of most of us though is that while we may be attracted to what looks good at the first, if that person has a stinko personality, if they are selfish, self centered and think the world revolves around them they will not remain attractive for long. I think most people will look beyond what we find attractive or not so attractive to find what lies beneath the surface. Beauty is only skin deep as they say. And I had rather be married (and have been for nearly 22 years) to someone who is not as gorgeous as Quentin, but who loves me in spite of my great imperfections rather than that person who is attractive to look at but has greater personality flaws.
Alondra