Actually, Fran, "lilly to her voice" is very appropriate!  I like that term - I think you've just created a new turn-of-the-words!
And I do like Miss Bennett's portrayal of our flighty cousin.  In a way, she reminds me of Carl Collins, but without the childish naughtiness found in him.
I think many of us have a Cousin Flora somewhere in our families.  Mine was an uncle's "girlfriend".  She was a nice lady, but so flighty she made Flora look like Judith Collins.
Gerard