Author Topic: OT - Loss  (Read 2293 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Offline Josette

  • Full A ed Newest Fervor Post
  • NEW ASCENDANT
  • ******
  • Posts: 4605
  • Karma: +75/-3091
  • Gender: Female
    • View Profile
OT - Loss
« on: June 08, 2003, 03:41:18 AM »
I've made a few references previously about my mother being in a nursing home.  For over 7 months she has been in and out of various hospitals and nursing homes.  A couple of months ago, we thought the end might be imminent.  But, recently she had improved.  A week ago she went back to the hospital for pneumonia, but otherwise seemed much better.  And, after returning to the nursing home, they started physical therapy again.  So, we really thought things were improving.

Therefore, it was a total shock to get a call in the early hours of this morning to say that she was gone.  In fact, they say that she had been talking to one of the aides just 15 minutes before, and then when the nurse went in, discovered that it was over.  So, my aunt and I really can't believe it at this point.
Josette

Offline jennifer

  • Full A ed Newest Fervor Post
  • DSF God
  • *****
  • Posts: 2784
  • Karma: +541/-615
  • Gender: Female
  • we'll always love you Don!
    • View Profile
Re:OT - Loss
« Reply #1 on: June 08, 2003, 03:53:22 AM »
oh i'm so sorry to hear about your loss and the shock over it,
Josette, you are in my prayers.
please take care
jennifer
we are the champions!!!!
 2007 Boston Red Sox
PAV

Offline Minja

  • Full A ed Newest Fervor Post
  • Full Poster
  • ***
  • Posts: 528
  • Karma: +1978/-2064
  • Gender: Female
    • View Profile
Re:OT - Loss
« Reply #2 on: June 08, 2003, 03:54:12 AM »

What a truly sad and tragic shock Josette.  My condolences and hugs to you and your Aunt.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.


Always, Minja  :- 
Because I knew you, I have been changed for good.
-From the song "For Good" from "Wicked"

Offline Midnite

  • Exec Moderator /
  • Administrator
  • SENIOR ASCENDANT
  • *****
  • Posts: 10717
  • Karma: +717/-4916
  • Gender: Female
    • View Profile
Re:OT - Loss
« Reply #3 on: June 08, 2003, 04:49:37 AM »
I'm so sorry, Josette.  My sincere condolences to you and your Aunt, and please know that I'll be keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers. 

Offline Raineypark

  • DSF God
  • *****
  • Posts: 2749
  • Karma: +13053/-14422
    • View Profile
Re:OT - Loss
« Reply #4 on: June 08, 2003, 05:00:40 AM »
Please accept my condolences on the unexpected loss of your mother, Josette.

I know what it's like to get that phone call from the nursing home....it comes as a shock even when you've expected it for a long time.  I can only imagine what it's like when you're not so well prepared.

You and your family will be in my thoughts.
rainey
"Do not go gentle into that good night.  Rage, rage against the dying of the light."
Dylan Thomas

Offline ProfStokes

  • * Ingenious Intellect *
  • Senior Poster
  • ****
  • Posts: 2304
  • Karma: +74/-1519
  • Gender: Female
    • View Profile
Re:OT - Loss
« Reply #5 on: June 08, 2003, 06:02:15 AM »
Josette, I'm so very sorry about your loss.  :(  You have my sympathies.

ProfStokes

Offline Cassandra

  • Full A ed Newest Fervor Post
  • Senior Poster
  • ****
  • Posts: 2239
  • Karma: +152/-322
  • Gender: Female
  • I love DS!
    • View Profile
Re:OT - Loss
« Reply #6 on: June 08, 2003, 07:18:54 AM »
Oh Josette,  Im so very sorry to hear this.  My deepest sympathies are with you & your Aunt and I'll keep you both in my prayers.  Please take care of yourself hon and know that all your friends here are thinking of you.

Cassandra
"Calamity Jane"

Offline Carol

  • * Fiction Filly *
    Full A ed Newest Fervor Post
  • Senior Poster
  • ****
  • Posts: 642
  • Karma: +18/-116
  • Gender: Female
  • New York Cat
    • View Profile
Re:OT - Loss
« Reply #7 on: June 08, 2003, 01:30:23 PM »
Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your mother. You and your aunt will be in my thoughts and prayers.
carolinamooon

"All that we see or seem is but a dream within a dream" - Edgar Allan Poe

Offline Maria_Merriweather

  • Full A ed Newest Fervor Post
  • Full Poster
  • ***
  • Posts: 443
  • Karma: +3916/-16024
  • Gender: Female
  • I love DS!
    • View Profile
Re:OT - Loss
« Reply #8 on: June 08, 2003, 03:36:54 PM »
My thoughts and condolences are with you during this difficult time.
MM

Offline Mark Rainey

  • Full A ed Newest Fervor Post
  • Senior Poster
  • ****
  • Posts: 906
  • Karma: +1169/-3545
  • Gender: Male
    • View Profile
    • The Realm
Re:OT - Loss
« Reply #9 on: June 08, 2003, 07:12:26 PM »
So sorry to hear of your loss, Josette. Deepest sympathies, and I'll keep you and your family in my prayres. Best wishes.

--Mark[/color]

Offline Patti Feinberg

  • Full A ed Newest Fervor Post
  • DSF God
  • *****
  • Posts: 3291
  • Karma: +1729/-3046
  • Gender: Female
    • View Profile
Re:OT - Loss
« Reply #10 on: June 08, 2003, 09:03:39 PM »
Josette... :'( :'(
words just aren't any good.

I'm so terribly sorry and I will be praying for you and your aunt.

Patti
What a Woman!

Offline Debra

  • Full Poster
  • ***
  • Posts: 240
  • Karma: +55/-173
  • Gender: Female
    • View Profile
Re:OT - Loss
« Reply #11 on: June 08, 2003, 09:30:32 PM »
Dear Josette,
  Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your mother.  Im sorry to hear this and will keep you and your aunt both in my prayers.

Deb

Offline victoriawinters

  • Full A ed Newest Fervor Post
  • Senior Poster
  • ****
  • Posts: 766
  • Karma: +830/-1839
  • Gender: Female
  • Total ENFJ Geek!
    • View Profile
    • victoriawinters.net
Re:OT - Loss
« Reply #12 on: June 08, 2003, 09:33:27 PM »
I am so sorry to hear of your sudden loss Josette.  You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts.

luv, victoriawinters.

Offline Gerard

  • NEW ASCENDANT
  • ******
  • Posts: 3596
  • Karma: +559/-6707
  • Gender: Male
    • View Profile
Re:OT - Loss
« Reply #13 on: June 08, 2003, 10:39:54 PM »
Great big cyber-hugs from me, Josette.  I know what you're going through, because I went through it with my mother.  It is a shock, and the only thing one can say at this time is how truly sorry I and everyone else is.  Here comes another big cyber-hug for you.

Gerard

Offline Anubis

  • Full A ed Newest Fervor Post
  • Junior Poster
  • **
  • Posts: 69
  • Karma: +11/-143
  • Gender: Female
    • View Profile
Re:OT - Loss
« Reply #14 on: June 09, 2003, 03:19:10 AM »
Josette - My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. - Linda