Originally posted by kuanyin on February 24, 2002 at 19:40:54:
In Reply to: Re: I thought it rather suggestive posted by Josette on February 23, 2002 at 22:34:25:
I think it was much more common to have a thing with a maid on your OWN staff. And in a time of no birth control, it wasn't really acceptable. If it had been his own maid, and he could help "set up" the girl in a marriage or provide a home for the little illegitimate baby-THEN, it was more of a boys will be boys attitude. Maybe. He was raised in a highly puritannical area, and I don't think Joshua would have approved.
But, anyway, to bed someone who was a member of another household, and then cut out of town (to leave her completely on her own if she WAS in the family way), no - sorry, I see nothing admirable about that.