The only big and brawny guy I remember in highschool, was this pest who kept trying to force himself on me, by continually making bad passes at me, writing me dirty notes in class, and following me around. My boyfriend was an older man, and big and brawny himself. I finally got fed up and informed him of the situation. He was furious and wanted to wait for the guy after school. The next time the guy passed me a note in class, I wrote what was going to happen if he did it again, or bothered me again. He left me alone from them on. He didn't want to face a 35 year old man after school.