Uh... no. It always annoyed me as a kid that people saw it as something sexual, when it just looked that way a little bit.... maybe like "necking". Actually, you get tired, weak, and needy. Now I can see, though, that the feelings overlap with romantic ones to some extent.... if one's romantic feelings veer toward submissiveness. Then again, you get to go on evil missions for the vampire against innocents, which can be fun... vampire victims don't have to be passive all the time. Anyway, I guess I can see the attraction in being totally swept up in something... but the victim never really gets satisfied, does she/he?
Is it the self-destructive aspect that might be attractive?
When I imagine Megan Todd the vampire, I find I'm considering it. Sign me up, but first I'm going to get a job at the blood bank.