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Offline Mark Rainey

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OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« on: March 11, 2007, 04:54:04 PM »
It's been a trying few months. My wife, Peg, had surgery the day after Christmas for bone spurs in her shoulder and a reconstruction of a bad knee. Last month, my mom was diagnosed with uterine cancer and had to have a hysterectomy (which went well, and we believe there won't be any complications). This past week, we received the rather shocking news that my daughter Allison was hospitalized with a blood clot in her lung.

We got the news on Thursday afternoon, so that night, Peg and I drove up to Maryland, where Allison lives. We've spent the past couple of days there with her, and we left this afternoon and are now at my mom's in Virginia. Allison is still in the hospital, but we expect her to be released on Monday. She's doing reasonably well, but is still in a lot of pain. The doctors believe that the clot is a result of her taking birth control and being a smoker -- evidently, not a good combination.

Her prognosis is generally good; she's on blood thinner to help dissolve the clot (and will be for the next few months) as well as high-powered painkillers, as this thing is quite excruciating and interferes with her breathing. The word is that there's only a minute chance that it will move and cause further damage, but needless to say, her mom and I remain concerned about that. On the good side, she's had excellent medical care, and we're fairly confident the worst of it is over.

Some of y'all met Allison at a couple of the DS gatherings a few years back when she came to hang out with the scary folks. Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers, if you would. The kid means the world to me.

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Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« Reply #1 on: March 11, 2007, 05:11:09 PM »
I'll be thinking positive thoughts for Allison, and the rest of the clan, Mark.

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Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« Reply #2 on: March 11, 2007, 05:27:18 PM »
She is in my thoughts and prayers, Mark, as are you and all your family. Please take care of yourself as well - you need to get enough rest also.
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Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« Reply #3 on: March 11, 2007, 05:34:38 PM »
Ouch, poor Allison, and how scary for you!  Will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers-- for a full recovery for all, and better times ahead.  Take care, Mark.

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Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« Reply #4 on: March 11, 2007, 05:47:17 PM »
I am so sorry to hear you and your family have been going through some rough times, Mark. Hang in there!

I shall pray for Allison, and for you and the rest of the family.

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Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« Reply #5 on: March 11, 2007, 05:47:40 PM »
Peace & healing to all of you.

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Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« Reply #6 on: March 11, 2007, 07:28:39 PM »
Mark, sending positive vibes, prayers and good wishes your way.

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Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« Reply #7 on: March 11, 2007, 08:43:05 PM »
Is there anything more terrifying than being told your child's life is in danger?

I'll be holding positive thoughts and best wishes for all of you......

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Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« Reply #8 on: March 11, 2007, 09:54:19 PM »
You're all certainly in my thoughts and best wishes, Mark!

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Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« Reply #9 on: March 11, 2007, 10:34:28 PM »
Best wishes to all, Mark!
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Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« Reply #10 on: March 11, 2007, 10:36:19 PM »
Thank you -- thank you all. That means so much. We just got a call from Allison a short while ago; she's going to be in the hospital another couple of days, mainly because of the pain, but she's otherwise doing pretty well. I really feel she's out of the woods, but we won't stop holding our breath yet. She's getting really good care, and her friends who live near her are going out of their way to help.

Best always.


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Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« Reply #11 on: March 11, 2007, 11:03:28 PM »
Mark, I'm so sorry to hear about all the troubles your family has suffered.  I wish a complete recovery for your daughter and good health for your wife and mother.  Best wishes to you, too!

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Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« Reply #12 on: March 12, 2007, 12:41:06 AM »
Mark, I hope everything turns out well!

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Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« Reply #13 on: March 12, 2007, 01:30:44 AM »
Having had a few bad things happen at once in my own family, I understand where you're at.  I will send positive thoughts your way.  I'm sure things will improve soon.  Take Care,

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Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
« Reply #14 on: March 12, 2007, 02:27:52 AM »
Mark
Prayers and good thought sent your way from one parent who has done time in hospital with a child dealing with a life threatning situation.
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