But Quentin's character developed through the 1897 storyline - in fact, he had some of the best, most realistic character development on the show. The events of 1897 with the curse and Petofi had changed him a bit, and realistically so. Someone usually doesn't go through all of that and remain the same. Quentin didn't stay the 'rogue bad boy' that he was in the beginning of 1897. It's also the fact that they tried to turn Amanda into his "true love" that didn't make sense. They met and that was it. Beth and Quentin had development throughout the 1897 storyline. They had a rich history that the writers tossed aside for Amanda. It was poor storytelling.
The Barnabas and Angelique thing was character assassination for the sake of dramatic shock value at the end of the 1840 storyline, IMO. And the way that scene spit on not only Barnabas, but on other characters such as Josette, Naomi, Sarah, Victoria, his family....all the people that Angelique tried to/did destroy....they were probably rolling in their graves when they heard him with Angelique. It was suddenly as if those characters never mattered.
I also disagree that Josette can't be the love of his life because of her short stint in it. I've known plenty of people who consider their greatest love to be someone they weren't with that long, or hadn't been with in many years. But they hold that person closest to their heart. It isn't about the number of years.
Willie - I think it was the fact that Carolyn knew he didn't understand what he was doing. She noticed rather quickly that he was childlike, and that probably contributed to her feelings for him. I think she stayed sympathetic to him for too long, but I can understand where her feelings began.