"Waiting for the Night" fits Barnabas perfectly! I love those lyrics.
I've been looking for a song that is titled "Confused" or something like that for Vicki, but have yet to come across one. I did, however, find a what I think is a great one for Barnabas and Julia. If anyone watched the Grey's Anatomy finale last year, you've heard it. I believe it was played after Denny died. Anyway, here it is:
"Chasing Cars" by Snow Patrol
We'll do it all everything, on our own
We don't need anything, or anyone
If I lay here, If I just lay here
Would you like with me
And just forget the world
I don't quite know how to say how I feel (DUH BARNABAS!)
Those three words are said too much (Julia: Well maybe they wouldn't be if you weren't such a
They're not enough man-wh**e)
If I lay here, If I just lay here
Would you lie with me
And just forget the world
Forget what you're told
Before we get too old
Show me a garden
That's bursting into life
Let's waste time chasing cars
Around our heads
I need your grace to remind me (Finally, Barnabas has realized!)
To find my own
If I lay here, if I just lay here
Would you lie with me
And just forget the world
Forget what you're told
Before we get too old
Show me a garden
That's bursting into life
All that I am, All that I ever was (And that was a lot for Barn!)
Is here in your perfect eyes
They're all I can see, I don't know where
Confused about how as well
Just know that these things will never
Change for us at all
I think this is pretty self explanatory. "Laying here" means in a coffin if you think of it after the [spolier]ending of a recent book[/spoiler]. Or you could just think of Barnabas laying in his coffin and finally realizing that he loves Julia and that this is all he wants to say to her.