There have ALWAYS been both generous souls, and those who begrudge every act of charity requested of them.
I have also found it to be true that those who would seem the least able to provide help are often the first to arrive with it.....the elderly family member who's just scraping by never forgets the Christmas present for the little one.....the young family with kids of their own who always think to invite a neighbor child who would otherwise go nowhere.
This is so true, Rainey. An apartment house just burned down in my town. Several of my son's school mates have lost everything(clothing, toys, everything). The school is putting on a spaghetti dinner. All the children brought home fliers requesting donations of clothing, bedding, furniture, and money. The police department is going to help serve the spaghetti.This is a very poor town. I have learned that while Mainers are wary of strangers they will give you the shirt off their back. I used to live in California. If a house burned down it was just another strangers misfortune and none of your concern. Here in Maine, everyones life matters.