Michael--I'd be hard pressed to really disagree with anything you say. I'd just add it's a perception thing. You could say the same about the tv series, and people do, it's silly and juvenile, the acting is bad, the writing is worse, ect, ect. Well sure, sometimes, but if you stop there you miss a lot.
I have little interest in the romantic aspects of DS. I don't care if I ever hear Josette's name again. My favorite plots would probably be 1897 and the first half of Leviathans. Different strokes!