Dear Lurkers:
Two years ago, I got fed up with another DS board where the posters frequently attacked each other. I stumbled across this one (known by a different name at the time) and was impressed with its collegiality, intelligence, warmth, and wit. It didn't occur to me, but yes, this is indeed a safe, decent place.
After posting here for over a year, I met a number of our group for the first time at last year's fest in NYC, and they are very nice, fun bunch. Plus, if you're a little eccentric (okay, crazy), you'll fit right in with the rest of us!
Inasmuch as the last fest took place in the World Trade Center -- just three weeks before September 11 -- I was also deeply moved by the thoughts we exchanged on this board shortly after the tragedy. We went from being friends to becoming a family.
I, too, was once intimidated by the scholarly knowledge level of some posters. I don't consider myself a DS scholar, but I'm a longtime fan who loves so many aspects of the show. I think that's really all you need to contribute your own unique viewpoints. And the scholars are always more than happy to answer your questions.
So come on in ... the water's fine!
Ben