Barnabas gave himself away with Kitty when he kept calling her "Lady Kitty". Anybody raised in England, as Barnabas claims to have been, would know that she was Lady Hampshire, not Lady Kitty. She herself was apparently raised in the US, so it's conceivable that she would not understand that, but I think more likely she made a point of getting titles straight. I imagine the last thing she would want would be to remind her husband's friends of her lower class origins. Still, Kitty didn't take exception to Barnabas's manner of address, and she was in a mood to take exception to anything and everything Barnabas said.
Other than that, Barnabas did handle the issue poorly with Kitty. I guess he has yet to accept that a woman might not jump at the chance of becoming Josette, so he blithely encouraged Kitty to submerge her identity in the identity of a woman who was a stranger to her. I'd like to think that he felt he had no time for subtleties because Kitty's engagement to Edward has already been announced, but in fact I think he was just being stupid.
I had forgotten about Pansy's dream, which surprises me, because it went on forever - far longer, I think, than Charity's Quentin dream a few weeks back, which I had remembered. With any luck, I can forget this dream again. If there were anything at all between Quentin and Pansy, I wouldn't mind it, but there isn't. I'm glad that there are those who enjoy it, however.