Had a busy week, but I finally found a moment to return to this thread.
Nancy:
you've been a true friend, & I respect you a lot.
His right to say it, my right to express my displeasure,
you're right to chastise me.
It's all part of open discusions in a free society.
I opened myself up to your comments by posting my feelings on the board, just as Mr H opened himself up when he made comments that, frankly, disgusted a lot of people.
The whole idea that all DS fans are fat, ugly, gay, or sexually repressed, and that these are our reasons for loving DS, was rampant in the 80s.
In my humble opinion, we need less of that kind of talk and more of the heartfelt, uplifting sentiments that Heather & Magnus Trask expressed in their posts.
We also need more of the kind of brilliance Steve shows in his essay.
When I was a fest attendee, many moons ago, I was subjected to a lot of abuse & false, sexually graphic rumor mongering from closet cases who couldn't deal with my being an out, loud gay activist.
Many of them bought into Mr H's description of fandom hook, line & sinker.
It's time to say no to that mentalty and lift ourselves up (which we've been doing for years at this board)
On that note, I'm now going to go read my favorite poem:
Rise by Maya Angelou.
And I Rise,
David