The irony, and the power, of that scene between B and A is that if Barnabas had recognized his true feelings in the first place, he would have saved himself and everyone else a great deal of pain and suffering.
Personally, I love that scene because I believe that Barnabas and Angelique are true soul mates. I also believe that Barnabas never really loved Josette. If he truly felt that Josette was the great love of his life, then why was he sneaking around with Angelique? I feel that he viewed Josette as the ideal woman for someone in his social position, and over the years, built her up into a mythical creature. I believe that Angelique was the one he really wanted, and that Josette was the one he felt that he should want...
...I still think Angelique is the best soulmate for Barnabas.
Ang Wins-- End of 1840 not so problematic for you I'm guessing?!
Wasn't the Barnelique tryst before Josebarb?
B: You see, it was a mistake. Oh, I know it was wrong to say it this way, but, well, it's my fault. I know it was my weakness to...A: (wounded) ... love me.B: I love Josette.A: (angry) But you came to me.andB: Because, Angelique, I didn't know that we were going to be married then. To be honest, I thought I was in love with Josette but I didn't realize she was in love with me. But now that we've written, (pause) well, you and I... It's impossible.A: Are you sad about it?B: What good will it be to admit that? We both have different roles to play now.
Barnabas showed how blind he could be to real love with Julia, and was impulsive and fickle with his emotions, falling in love with one pyt after another, most of them being stand-ins for Josette. Than he really though he could hold Maggie prisoner, dress her in Josette's clothes and put her in Josette's room and make her be Josette says a lot about how Barnabas loves Josette, more like a very prized possesion than a person. At the very least the fact that Barnabas tries repeatedly to make other women become Josette shows he's very disturbed in realtion to how he views women and love.