A big point was made; Judith was raised by her
grandmother.
I can't speak for anyone else, but, since Grandmothers are from 2 generations prior, they tend to be more staid/strict etc. They've also been through
alot, so they don't necessarily want to put up with alot of children's nonsense. (Also, that was
definitely a time of children 'being seen & not heard'.)
Edward doesn't seem genial or frivilous or warm, but are we giving him the benefit because [spoiler]his wife left him for his brother?[/spoiler]
Edith has watched her Grandmother run the company (a least at some point when Edith & Edward were younger)....so she has seen a woman being 'tough'. Now, I don't want to get on a soapbox
, but I remember my mother (in mid-1970's) having to deal with mortgage co/electric. Everything was in her name (my parents were divorced), yet the
men on the phone from aforementioned would tell my college-educated mother to 'have your husband call back so we can explain the charges to him'.
So, Judith had to deal with
everything around the home (and we don't really know how involved with the Collin's business she was) once Grandmama got older/bed ridden.
Why
wouldn't/shouldn't she be a powerful woman. Hey, it's either
powerful or pitiful, so Good For Judith!!!
allllll my humble 62 cents.....
Patti