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Current Talk '04 II / Re: Barnabas--Love and Lust list
« on: August 06, 2004, 10:40:07 PM »When I first watched the series, I kept thinking how superficial and fickle Barnabas was for flitting from one so-called "true love" to another every month. Over time, I came to believe that while he seemed to be pursuing Maggie, Vicki, Rachel, or Kitty in reality he was always chasing Josette and associated her with every brunette ingenue he met.
I'm newish to the series but that's the way it seems to me. He switched from Maggie to Vicki in a heartbeat. Maybe he grew to love Vicki on her own merits but his sudden flip-flop didn't seem terribly loving.
I'm kind of curious about Julia's feelings for Barnabas. I suppose she initially lusted for him and that grew to love. He could be so wicked and downright abusive to her in the earlier eps...I don't know how much that changes later. What was it about him that she desired so much. Sure, he was a hottie but he could also be so sexist, abusive and manipulative toward her. I guess she just saw his inner hurt.
Yet, there are a few moments, in the earlier days, that he seems to let down his guard a bit and at least appreciate/respect her. He seemed genuinely touched when she offered her blood to restore his youth but said that he couldn't take her independence. Maybe I'm reading too much into that but it seemed like he really didn't want to see her give up the independence and accomplishments she'd worked so hard to achieve.
Of course, it may have also been foresight on his part---he knew a smart, savvy person could help in the future...or maybe he just wanted to chomp on a girly-girl's neck.