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Title: David Selby father's obituary
Post by: Julia99 on August 18, 2006, 05:55:01 PM
Baseball coach Clyde Selby dies
Known for his years with youth league, strong patriotism


BY BOB HERTZEL, The Dominion Post


Clyde Ira Selby is best known for his work in Morgantown's youth baseball program, but the retired carpenter and contractor was also a passionate member of the American Legion. Selby, 90, died Tuesday.

Selby not only coached Morgantown's Post 2 Legion team to state championships in 1973, 1974, 1976, 1980, 1981, and served as state American Legion baseball commissioner, but he was also state president of the American Legion.

"He was an extremely patriotic man," said WAJR-radio general manager Dale Miller, who took over as manager of the American Legion team from Selby in 1985 after Selby had coached it for 40 years.

Miller noted that Selby would attend games after leaving as manager and would offer a scowl if both the American flag and the American Legion flag weren't displayed.

"We would have the American flag and either the pledge of allegiance or the national anthem before every game," said John Raese, head of Greer Industries and senatorial candidate. Raese played three years for Selby.

Selby was known as a level-headed leader of young men. "He wasn't a coach that yelled, cussed and threw things," said Karl Sommer, a local pharmacist. "He treated you like an adult. If you had a problem or needed to talk to him, he was there."

"He made you want to play for him," said Rick Rice, who played with four brothers in the American Legion program under Selby and later would manage the Post 2 team. "He enjoyed the relationships with the kids. You wanted to win for him."

Selby was an accomplished carpenter who built his own home, worked on many houses in the Morgantown area and who helped to build the Little League field in Marilla Park.

Selby's son, David, is a noted character actor who has appeared on Broadway, in films and in such television series as "Falcon Crest," while his other son, Craig, is president of the Charleston Newspapers Inc.

His wife, Sarah E. McIntyre Selby, died two years ago.

A memorial service for Selby will be at 2 p.m. Friday at Spruce Street United Methodist Church, of which he was a lifetime member.

(http://www.dsboards.com/images/Selbyfam.jpg)
Submitted Photo Craig (left), his late mother, Sarah,
David and Clyde Selby gather in this undated family photo.
Title: Re: David Selby father's obituary
Post by: BuzzH on August 18, 2006, 06:37:40 PM
Awww, that's SO sad!  Poor David!  He's such a sweet man I hate that this, although it's inevitable that parents die, had to happen.   :'(  My heart goes out to him and his family.  His pop sounded like a pretty cool guy too.
Title: Re: David Selby father's obituary
Post by: CyrusL on August 18, 2006, 06:53:18 PM
Likewise, I feel great sympathy for the Selby family.  It takes some time to grieve over a parent. It was months before I got out of the habit of picking up the phone to call my Dad when he passed. The description of his Dad reminds me of a lot of my older Lodge brothers, lots of veterans. Its really an honor to be members with guys who fought at Normandy on D-Day and the guys who were in the Pacific. I admire their strength, virtue and conviction. I know David is a very caring person, after seeing him at the shows and reading his books. Again, our prayers of consolation will go out to him.

Michael  
Title: Re: David Selby father's obituary
Post by: Charles_Ellis on August 18, 2006, 07:22:18 PM
My deepest sympathy to the family..... :'(
Title: Re: David Selby father's obituary
Post by: CastleBee on August 18, 2006, 07:41:37 PM
Here's another obit (Charleston Gazette) with a photo.

http://wvgazette.com/section/Obituaries/

Just enter the name "Selby" in search by name option at the top.
Title: Re: David Selby father's obituary
Post by: Sunny_Collins on August 18, 2006, 08:47:45 PM
My deepest sympathy and condolences go out to David Selby and his family. It is difficult to lose a loved one. My sincerest prayers are with him.  :( :'(
Title: Re: David Selby father's obituary
Post by: TERRY308 on August 19, 2006, 04:34:40 AM
I shook hands with Mr. Selby when David spoke at Fairmont  State a few years ago.  He seems like such a great man.  My deepest sympathy and condolences for David and Dave.
Title: Re: David Selby father's obituary
Post by: jennifer on August 19, 2006, 06:10:19 AM
i too feel for him as i miss my Dad every day and sometimes
find myself starting to call him for advice even after a year and a half.
memories do help and it sounds like the selby family have good ones

jennifer

Title: Re: David Selby father's obituary
Post by: nedstuart on August 19, 2006, 01:23:32 PM
It is very sad to hear about the passing of Clyde Selby. My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to the Selby family and friends.