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Title: A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: kuanyin on May 04, 2003, 02:39:06 PM
I have to confess that I have barely had time for DS, I tape it and then neglect to watch. (The Leviathan story line contributes to this, it is my least fav.)

But, I have DO have a good excuse. I am getting married! I have found the person that I was born to be with. We have been friends for several years and growing ever closer all that time. We just have so much in common that it is uncanny. He is a dedicated Christian and my respect for him has grown and grown as I've watched him over time.  A love of horror films and the supernatural was one of the first things we discovered, so we always discussed that. He loves books even more than I do, though horror and theology are probably the only genres we share an interest in reading. When we began seeing each other away from church, we found out we had much more, such as both being artists (I don't do it currently, he has stayed with it much better than I) and enjoying writing.

Anyway, I have heard of a few great loves and read about them, but I never really thought it could happen to me. Or, at 47 years old, I had just given up on the thought years ago. He treats me so well, my kids like him and he is good with them, he even understands better than most my mentally ill son.  I have never been so happy in my entire life. Just wanted to share that with my friends here. I know several of you have great marriages and that has always inspired me that it CAN be done.
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: onyx_treasure on May 04, 2003, 03:11:14 PM
Dear Kuanyin,
     I had wondered where you have been.  Many blessings and best wishes.  I have two mentally challenged children and if you find anyone who can help you cope, you are truly blessed with an angel.  He sounds like a keeper.
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: jennifer on May 04, 2003, 03:33:31 PM
Wow kuanyin that is great news! the best for you always
and thanks for sharing the news!


jennifer
since DS is on at 8 am i find myself missing it also!
i forget to tape but i have most of this on tape
and know i can watch it whenever i want too!
agree life is busy and we started T ball yesterday
watch out grady little and red sox i might just take over that team yet!also my son hit a whopper yesterday(the future!)
i think managing 5 year olds might be easier than so called
adult athletes though!

Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Mark Rainey on May 04, 2003, 03:41:38 PM
Kuanyin -- Excellent news! Congratulations to you; it sounds like you've gotten the right person. I hope you'll be very happy and the two of you will be blessed. Best wishes!

--Mark
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: dom on May 04, 2003, 04:30:10 PM
Congrat's kuanyin.

Wishing you nothing but happiness, forever.

Sincerely,
dom
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Raineypark on May 04, 2003, 05:11:37 PM
I really do believe a long and happy marriage is perhaps the greatest single blessing possible.  The sorrows are easier, the joys more profound, when you you can share them with the right companion.  My husband and I have known one another for 26 years and been married for  20 (yes, being good friends first and getting to know one another IS excellent!!).

Congratulations and Best Wishes, Kuanyin....I've missed your posts, but I can't think of a better reason to be "too busy".  :D
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Gerard on May 04, 2003, 05:28:03 PM
Congratulations, Kuanyin!  You landed a winner (and obviously used some very good bait)!  It's really marvelous that he's devoted to your special son.  Now, we all expect to be invited to the wedding.  After all, you can never have enough identical toaster-ovens all wrapped up real pretty on the gifts table (so you can cash trade them in afterwards and get something you really want!).

Gerard
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: CandleLighter on May 04, 2003, 06:19:54 PM
Congratulations and much much happiness Kuanyin.  I also have 2 sons that are challenged...one mentally and both physically...  and both very much a blessing to me as I am sure your son is to you.. You deserve nothing but the best!
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Luciaphile on May 04, 2003, 08:04:52 PM
Congratulations :) I'm so happy for you!
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Midnite on May 04, 2003, 09:10:38 PM
Congratulations and best wishes, kuanyin!  Thank you for sharing your great news with us.
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Annie on May 04, 2003, 10:34:21 PM
Congrats Kuanyin  I'm so very happy for you!!
Much happiness and love always!!!!
He's a very lucky man that your honey has
found a beautiful person inside and out!!
God Bless Love U Anne [wavey] [wavey]
                           [beer]  [beer] ;D
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Carol on May 05, 2003, 12:23:34 AM
Congratulations kuanyin. Sounds like you've found a sweetie to share your life. My best wishes to you.[/color][92c5]
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: ProfStokes on May 05, 2003, 01:25:49 AM
Congratulations to you, kuanyin!  I had been wondering where you were, and now I'm delighted to learn how well things are going for you.  Best wishes always!

ProfStokes
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Minja on May 05, 2003, 02:27:50 AM

Kuanyin stopped by the store I work at yesterday and gave me the fantastic news in person...and if ever there was a glowing person...it was her!  It's been a long time since I've seen ANYONE that happy!  And I am soooo happy for her!  I think I hugged her a bizillion times!  While I don't think that her wedding will count amongst the new, smaller DS gatherings, I have offered my services as puppy-sitter while she goes on Honeymoon!

Mucho Congrats again kiddo!  I told ya!  There's someone special out there for ya!  And ya found him!  Another big..
{{{{{{{{Huggg}}}}} to ya!!!

Always, Minja [clap][/color]
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: CrazyJenny on May 05, 2003, 03:17:57 AM
Congratulations! Thats wonderful news!
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: The Ghost of Sarah Collins on May 05, 2003, 03:18:07 AM
My most sincere Congratulations to you and your fiance... May your household be filled with joy and laughter and everyone live happily ever after.
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          A TOAST TO THE LOVELY COUPLE
           WITH A DRINK OF ROGER'S BEST
                            SHERRY!

   Sarah's [ghost]
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: TERRY308 on May 05, 2003, 04:16:57 AM
Congratulation!  I hope he' a winner!! :D
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Julianka7 on May 05, 2003, 04:46:49 AM
Congratulations Kuanyin  :D
I wish you all the best of everything!
Julianka
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: MsCriseyde on May 05, 2003, 05:06:17 AM
Congratulations, Kuanyin.

I was expecting an admission of guilt for some hideous crime against humanity based on your subject line.  :o

What a pleasant surprise.  :)
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Josette on May 05, 2003, 07:01:19 AM
CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Such wonderful news.  He really sounds very special.  Best wishes to both of you. :)
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: victoriawinters on May 05, 2003, 08:33:26 AM
Congratulations are in order.  I wish you all the best.  I met my husband at church and even though he doesn't like Dark Shadows, he's stuck with me through thick and thin.

I wish you the same.

luv and best wishes,
victoriawinters
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Cassandra on May 05, 2003, 10:05:06 AM
Congratulations Kuanyin!! [92c5]
  Im so very happy for you!!  I had wondering where you've been lately and I miss seeing your posts but now that I know the reason I couldn't be more happier for you!!

It sounds like you have found your soulmate and I wish you both the best of luck and happiness!

Cassandra
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Gothick on May 05, 2003, 03:14:14 PM
Congratulations, Kuanyin!  that's beautiful news.  And what a blessing for you that he relates so well to your child.  He sounds like a real treasure for both of you!

I wish you and your intended every happiness.

Steve
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Midnite on May 05, 2003, 03:32:57 PM
Hope you and your loved ones are safe and your happiness unmarred by the storms in your part of the country, yikes.
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Debra on May 05, 2003, 09:13:52 PM
It's wonderful to hear such good news and I wish you and your mate a lifetime full of happiness and love forever.    :)

Deb
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: CastleBee on May 05, 2003, 09:59:39 PM
Congratulations and thank you for sharing such wonderful news [luv]!
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: kuanyin on May 06, 2003, 12:45:44 AM
Thanks so much! It is a special time for me, but I will try to check in here, whether I watch my tapes or not! :-* ;D
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Philippe Cordier on May 06, 2003, 01:21:26 AM
It sounds like you went about this the right way -- beginning as friends and getting to know the other person slowly over time ... rather old-fashioned in a (good) Jane Austen-ish sort of way!

 :)

Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Birdie on May 06, 2003, 02:20:08 AM
Best Wishes.  How wonderful for you to have found each other and may you have a blessed life together.

Birdie
Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Cassandra Blair on May 06, 2003, 03:52:46 PM
Congrats, Kuanyin!!!  That is such great news, glad to hear that you found that special someone.  May all your days together be filled with joy!

Title: Re:A Confession and an Announcement
Post by: Misty on May 06, 2003, 09:59:39 PM
 :) Let me add my congratulations. You have indeed found a very special person. I wish you both a lifetime of  good health and happiness.
                                             
                                                                            Misty