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Title: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: Gerard on March 30, 2007, 05:48:18 PM
A cousin (member) of our message board, and a personal friend of mine, passed away Thursday evening.  His "screen name" was "Barnabas;" his real name was Michael.  Like me, he was a great fan of Dark Shadows (especially of Grayson Hall and Joan Bennett), and we could talk for hours about the show, boring everyone around us to tears.  Michael lived in New Rochelle, New York, and recently relocated to Florida.  A few months ago, he was diagnosed with a kidney ailment that would not respond to treatment.  Michael was only 44.

If you would like to see pics of him, you will find them here in the Announcements archive in September 2003 in the pics I posted of our visit to the Brooklyn 2003 DS Fest.  Michael is the shorter man with the glasses.  At that time, Michael was highly involved in charity work for children with AIDS, and while talking with Marie Wallace (there's a pic with her), he discovered she was also very active in the same cause and they exchanged contact info.

Please remember Michael in your thoughts and prayers.  He was a wonderful fan and an even more wonderful friend.

Gerard
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: Midnite on March 30, 2007, 05:56:31 PM
My sympathy for your loss, Gerard.

The photos start here:
Re: More Fest Pics

I and friends with David Selby.
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: dom on March 30, 2007, 05:58:54 PM
My condolences on the loss of your friend and fellow DSForums member, Gerard.

 
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: IluvBarnabas on March 30, 2007, 06:36:49 PM
 [cryg] I am so sorry for your loss, Gerard. You and Michael are in my thoughts and you have my deepest sympathies.
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: Teresa on March 30, 2007, 06:51:45 PM
Please accept my sympathies on your loss. It sounds like Michael was a wonderful,caring man and will be missed.
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: michael c on March 30, 2007, 06:53:30 PM
that's very sad gerard.

my condolences.
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: Mysterious Benefactor on March 30, 2007, 07:38:41 PM
I'm so sorry to read of your friend's passing, Gerard. But how wonderful that you'll always have such great memories of him. And who knows - maybe somewhere right now Michael and Grayson and Joan are discussing the finer points of the show.  ;)
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: adamsgirl on March 30, 2007, 07:42:55 PM
I am so sorry to hear this, Gerard. My prayers are with you and Michael's family at this very sad time.
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: ProfStokes on March 31, 2007, 12:09:17 AM
Gerard, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your friend.  You have my condolences.

ProfStokes
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: David on March 31, 2007, 01:12:55 AM
I just took a look at the pics.
Gerard, I'm so sorry.
God Bless & RIP.

David
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: barnabasjr on March 31, 2007, 03:44:05 AM
Gerard, what tragic news! I'm so sorry for your loss.
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: Josette on March 31, 2007, 07:10:39 AM
Gerard, I am so sorry for your loss.
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: Nancy on March 31, 2007, 02:55:56 PM
Gerard,
I am sorry to hear of Michael's passing. :'(

Nancy
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: Sunny_Collins on April 01, 2007, 01:17:47 AM
Gerard, I am so very sorry to hear of your friend's passing! Please know that my prayers are with you.
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: arashi on April 01, 2007, 04:25:45 AM
I'm terribly sorry to hear about Michael's passing, he sounded like a truly compassionate and caring man. You have my sympathies.
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: Gerard on April 01, 2007, 02:49:36 PM
Thank you, everyone, for your continuing kind words, thoughts and condolences!  You're all the best!

Gerard
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: Mark Rainey on April 01, 2007, 04:53:13 PM
So sorry to hear the sad news, Gerard. Many condolences.
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: Elmont on April 01, 2007, 06:11:48 PM
 I'm sorry to hear of the passing of cousin Micheal.
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: Brandon Collins on April 02, 2007, 04:29:17 AM
Anytime a fandom of any sort loses a fan, it is a sad time, whether or not you were personally close with that person. This saddness is not lost on me. I will keep the both of you in my thoughts.
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: Annie on April 02, 2007, 01:45:22 PM
Dear Gerard i'm so sorry to hear about your friend Michael.   My thoughts and prayers are with you always.
           Love Anne
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: Gothick on April 03, 2007, 11:40:24 PM
My condolences to you, dear Gerard.

May your memories of Michael console you.  In love may he return!

Steve
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: EmeraldRose on April 22, 2007, 07:32:20 AM
I'm sorry for the lateness of this post.  I just found this.  I'm very sorry to hear of your dear friend Michael's passing.  My thoughts are with you in this great time of sorrow.

----- Sally -----
[coolg]
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: rainingwolf on April 22, 2007, 11:14:17 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May the memories of  your friendship with him bring you comfort in your time of sorrow.
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: CyrusL on April 23, 2007, 05:02:16 AM
Gerard, I wish to echo statements expressed and posted here. We share the loss of our fellow fan, but mostly we mourn with you on the loss of a dear friend. My heart goes out to you. May you long cherish your memories.
Michael

 
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: darkshadowsrick on April 23, 2007, 05:25:28 AM
My Sympathies go out to the family of Michael, and to you, for losing your friend.  It is always sad when someone passes, especially so young like that.  I lost my best friend from high school in January, she was only 49, and I will never get over losing her so early in our lives.   I didn't know Michael, but recognized him from the pictures. I had seen him at festivals.  Our Dark Shadows family is like an extended family, to many, losing Craig Hamrick was hard for me, and losing my friend Anna from England in 2003, was hard also.  I will always think of them at each upcoming festival.  They are surely missed.  Hope they can see us from heaven missing them!  Sorry this is so late,  Rick
Title: Re: A Cousin's Passing
Post by: Gerard on April 24, 2007, 02:26:57 AM
Thank you all for your wonderful thoughts and condolences; you words are truly consoling.  May my friend, and our DS cousin, Michael forever rest in peace.

Gerard