Buzz, I agree with just about all of your choices and this one
When Barnabas is told that Josette & Jeremiah are married-the pain and anguish in his eyes & voice, classic! Thank god Frid convinced DC to let him fix his flub.
was an excellent scene. I was really suprised to read that Frid apparently took too long at the door? Maybe that's what happened but it's a tense, well-executed and exciting scene.