Believe it or not, I'd rather hang out with Barnabas, his stubborness and other flaws aside.
Quentin is too much of a ladies' man for my taste (at least the 1897 version was).
I know Barnabas has an annoying attitude of 'it's my way or no way' a lot of times, but he can also be quite charming and knows how to treat a lady.
I must admit, sometimes I can be as stubborn as Barnabas when it comes to having my own way...so maybe we'd be a perfect match? LOL