I never saw her actions in 1840 as selfless. Yes, she helped him with nothing to gain, but she was still trying to prove to him that she could be unselfish, so that he would love her. And in that sense, she had everything to gain. JMHO, though.
That's completely open to interpretation. I really do see your point here. I mean, Angelique was never selfless at all throughout her history, as we saw it, so we're just all of a sudden to believe that she's going to BE selfless for the FIRST TIME EVER just to prove something to Barnabas?
But, I'll ignore that little inconvienent point for the sake of the story, just beacuse I still think that in terms of B&A's overall storyline, the 1840 stuff wrapped it up nicely.
As for what Lori said, I do think that when someone makes amends that some, not all, expect something in return for doing that. Usually in society, as children and then even as adults, we are rewarded for doing good things whether or not we want to, and whether or not we were supposed to do those good things.
Look at that guy who jumped on the guy having a seizure in a NYC subway. He was rewarded A LOT, from people like Donald Trump, Ellen DeGeneres, and even Oprah I think, as well as others, for something that he didn't have to do but still did.
And at many jobs we are given bonuses for doing paperwork or other things that are already a part of our job descriptions. Many times, these are called "incentives". So I think making "amends" as it were, strongly depends on the person's mindset before the action, and whether or not that person expects to be rewarded for what he or she has done.