I was there on Friday and Saturday, and in Norwalk in Ocotber of 2000 when this same thing happened, and share everyone's concerns about the safety issue.
Still, (and I am sorry if I am coming off like sanctimonious NE Purtan here), I am very uncomfortable with the fan in questions real name being on here, and his photo accompanying it. The deragotry terms used are pretty offensive too.
Anyone who knows me knows full well that I am probably the most unPC person alive, (I could tell the shopping in a blizzard story to prove that) but some things really are best kept to private conversations.
I also would like to point out that while I agree that what happened was unfortunate, I think any finger pointing should be done in the direction of Kurt's companion, who should have been there with him, and not off doing whatever it is he does while this stuff goes on.
Nancy