Fill in the blank: Burke - "This cup of coffee tastes great! What's Mrs. Johnson's secret?" Vicki - "She adds ________ to the coffee beans before she grinds them!!"
I guess we see things differently. Plus, even when Barn is angry as hell, he often makes a point of choosing polite phrasings - that's one of the things that makes his threats so devastating. Apparently he took it to heart when his parents taught him to try to always remain polite.