Don't crazy romances like Q and Amanda really happen? Don't nicer people like Beth get left behind? Don't nice guys really finish last?
They do indeed. In fact, so little of what might come across as absurd in a soap opera can ever compete with the actual absurdity of real life. Just watch the news or read a newspaper. Or worse yet, watch Dr. Phil or Jerry Springer.
You're not alone because I don't have a problem with Amanda either. Actually, I've noticed that very few, if any, men have a problem with her.
Umm...I'm not a man. Really I'm not.
I honestly wasn't implying that you were - only that, going by the what I've read over decades in fandom, most men wouldn't seem to have a problem with anything about Amanda (and that includes both straight and gay men).
Though when it comes to you not being a man, well, we do only have your word for that as none of us have actually met you in person.
And not to actually accuse you of the trick, but on myriads of online venues and in hundreds of fanzines MANY people have indeed pretended to be the opposite sex from what they actually are. Even here on this forum. Eventually they're unmasked or they eventually unmask themselves...
Perhaps someone should coin the term transcybergendered for the online phenomenon because it would be quite appropriate.