I don't recall the Big Finish incident at all! Though it certainly may have happened.
The other one, I think I know who/what you refer to, but no matter, it wasn't that big a deal, my "huh" moment was really just a moment & not a big deal. Just a message board posting, not the end of the world.
That other board raised an interesting, worthy issue, then took it too far by making idiotic comparisons to Nazis & facists. The bottom line is that I found a lot of kindness & support here--and folks here should know what was being said about us.