As I've explained before, the issue, from a moderator's viewpoint, isn't about his sexuality; it's about gossip vs. published information, and the reason for edits in the topic is that there's no way to determine how much of hearsay is truth. Neither MB, Dom or I have yet to see the soap mag interview that was mentioned, and that's why we once asked you for more details about the article.
Picano's book is searchable on Amazon, btw, and actually there are 4 pages about Crothers-- beginning on p. 97, the author mentions his boyfriend of 4 years, how he encouraged him to audition for Torch Song, and other details. He had an IQ of 155, awesome.