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O/T: My mother died this week.
« on: July 19, 2007, 07:33:48 AM »
I just thought I would let you all know that my beloved mother, who was 92 years old, died of respiratory failure on Tuesday, July 17th.  She was very ill with a really bad case of pneumonia and had the use of only 25% of her lungs, due to fluid build-up around the lungs.  After getting the fluid drained a couple of times, it was determined to be a futile exercise, so we decided to make her comfortable at the end without more poking, prodding, and tubes that would cause more pain and suffering.  Essentially, her body was shutting down.  She also had septic shock, low blood pressure, high blood sugar levels, renal failure, and her lung cancer may have returned after a 2-1/2 year absence.  She had been complaining to me about periodic bouts of shortness of breath and a "noise in her chest" (she was deaf) for about 2 or 3 weeks before she went into the hospital.  She had been in the hospital (mostly in ICU) for 11 days.

She was a very sweet and special woman who was liked and loved by many.  She had a smile that would light up the room.  She was a happy and positive woman with lots of love to give who always looked at the bright side of things.  My mother and I had lots of fun playing cards and dominoes once or twice a week.  She used to win numerous times when she played bingo and pokeno at the nursing home where she lived, to the chagrin of the other people who lived there.  I love her and miss her very much.

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Re: O/T: My mother died this week.
« Reply #1 on: July 19, 2007, 07:40:19 AM »
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother, EmeraldRose.

It's so difficult to lose someone close to you, especially your own mother.

Please, know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

As long as you remember the wonderful times you spent with her, and the things that made her so special, a part of her will live on.

With deepest sympathy:

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Re: O/T: My mother died this week.
« Reply #2 on: July 19, 2007, 07:45:40 AM »
EmeraldRose, I'm so sorry to learn of this.  My deepest sympathy.  The cessation of the "poking and prodding" I'm sure was a good thing, but it must be hard for you.
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Re: O/T: My mother died this week.
« Reply #3 on: July 19, 2007, 11:57:57 AM »
92! That's quite an accomplishment!

My prayers are with you and your family -
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Re: O/T: My mother died this week.
« Reply #4 on: July 19, 2007, 12:28:17 PM »
Dear Sally so sorry to hear about your Mom . Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers,
that God will heal you during this difficult time.   Love Anne :-*
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Re: O/T: My mother died this week.
« Reply #5 on: July 19, 2007, 01:11:42 PM »
Your mother sounds like she was a lovely woman. My sympathies to you and your family. It sounds like heaven truly has another angel.
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Re: O/T: My mother died this week.
« Reply #6 on: July 19, 2007, 01:53:51 PM »
Dearest Sally: Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Love, Diane

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Re: O/T: My mother died this week.
« Reply #7 on: July 19, 2007, 02:01:18 PM »
I am so sorry, Emerald!  You must miss her greatly.  I know what you went through because my dad died of some of the simular conditions.  You're in my deep thoughts!

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Re: O/T: My mother died this week.
« Reply #8 on: July 19, 2007, 02:38:25 PM »
Dear ER,
I am very sorry for your loss. Take comfort in the memories and take
good care of yourself. Hugs, Julianka

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Re: O/T: My mother died this week.
« Reply #9 on: July 19, 2007, 03:01:59 PM »
Dear Sally,

I'm so sorry for your loss. You're in my prayers. How fortunate you are to have had such a loving relationship with your mother for so long!

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Re: O/T: My mother died this week.
« Reply #10 on: July 19, 2007, 03:49:35 PM »
Sally, I am sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. It's never easy to lose someone who was such an important part of your life for so long. You have my deepest condolences.

I shall pray for you and your mother.

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Re: O/T: My mother died this week.
« Reply #11 on: July 19, 2007, 03:55:37 PM »
Sally,

I'm so sorry for your loss.  God bless.

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Re: O/T: My mother died this week.
« Reply #12 on: July 19, 2007, 04:09:51 PM »
I'm so sorry to hear about your mom's passing, Sally. You have my sincerest condolences.

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Re: O/T: My mother died this week.
« Reply #13 on: July 19, 2007, 04:15:31 PM »
Sally, please accept my sympathy.

Sounds like you have a hard act to follow!

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Re: O/T: My mother died this week.
« Reply #14 on: July 19, 2007, 04:59:45 PM »
Sally,

I too know what it's like having lost my father nearly two years ago, very suddenly. I hope that you gain strength in knowing that your mother is in a better place, with no suffering.

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