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Title: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Mark Rainey on March 11, 2007, 04:54:04 PM
It's been a trying few months. My wife, Peg, had surgery the day after Christmas for bone spurs in her shoulder and a reconstruction of a bad knee. Last month, my mom was diagnosed with uterine cancer and had to have a hysterectomy (which went well, and we believe there won't be any complications). This past week, we received the rather shocking news that my daughter Allison was hospitalized with a blood clot in her lung.

We got the news on Thursday afternoon, so that night, Peg and I drove up to Maryland, where Allison lives. We've spent the past couple of days there with her, and we left this afternoon and are now at my mom's in Virginia. Allison is still in the hospital, but we expect her to be released on Monday. She's doing reasonably well, but is still in a lot of pain. The doctors believe that the clot is a result of her taking birth control and being a smoker -- evidently, not a good combination.

Her prognosis is generally good; she's on blood thinner to help dissolve the clot (and will be for the next few months) as well as high-powered painkillers, as this thing is quite excruciating and interferes with her breathing. The word is that there's only a minute chance that it will move and cause further damage, but needless to say, her mom and I remain concerned about that. On the good side, she's had excellent medical care, and we're fairly confident the worst of it is over.

Some of y'all met Allison at a couple of the DS gatherings a few years back when she came to hang out with the scary folks. Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers, if you would. The kid means the world to me.
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: dom on March 11, 2007, 05:11:09 PM
I'll be thinking positive thoughts for Allison, and the rest of the clan, Mark.
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: rainingwolf on March 11, 2007, 05:27:18 PM
She is in my thoughts and prayers, Mark, as are you and all your family. Please take care of yourself as well - you need to get enough rest also.
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Midnite on March 11, 2007, 05:34:38 PM
Ouch, poor Allison, and how scary for you!  Will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers-- for a full recovery for all, and better times ahead.  Take care, Mark.
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: IluvBarnabas on March 11, 2007, 05:47:17 PM
I am so sorry to hear you and your family have been going through some rough times, Mark. Hang in there!

I shall pray for Allison, and for you and the rest of the family.
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: David on March 11, 2007, 05:47:40 PM
Peace & healing to all of you.

David
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: PennyDreadful on March 11, 2007, 07:28:39 PM
Mark, sending positive vibes, prayers and good wishes your way.

Danielle
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Raineypark on March 11, 2007, 08:43:05 PM
Is there anything more terrifying than being told your child's life is in danger?

I'll be holding positive thoughts and best wishes for all of you......

raineypark
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Gerard on March 11, 2007, 09:54:19 PM
You're all certainly in my thoughts and best wishes, Mark!

Gerard
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: barnabasjr on March 11, 2007, 10:34:28 PM
Best wishes to all, Mark!
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Mark Rainey on March 11, 2007, 10:36:19 PM
Thank you -- thank you all. That means so much. We just got a call from Allison a short while ago; she's going to be in the hospital another couple of days, mainly because of the pain, but she's otherwise doing pretty well. I really feel she's out of the woods, but we won't stop holding our breath yet. She's getting really good care, and her friends who live near her are going out of their way to help.

Best always.

Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: ProfStokes on March 11, 2007, 11:03:28 PM
Mark, I'm so sorry to hear about all the troubles your family has suffered.  I wish a complete recovery for your daughter and good health for your wife and mother.  Best wishes to you, too!

ProfStokes
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Lydia on March 12, 2007, 12:41:06 AM
Mark, I hope everything turns out well!
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Elizabeth47 on March 12, 2007, 01:30:44 AM
Having had a few bad things happen at once in my own family, I understand where you're at.  I will send positive thoughts your way.  I'm sure things will improve soon.  Take Care,

-Elizabeth
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: LdyAnne on March 12, 2007, 02:27:52 AM
Mark
Prayers and good thought sent your way from one parent who has done time in hospital with a child dealing with a life threatning situation.
LdyAnne
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Josette on March 12, 2007, 07:43:34 AM
Mark, so sorry to learn of so many troubles all at once for your family.  Wishing all the best for everyone.  I hope Allison will have a speedy recovery and that all will be well.  Supposedly things happen in 3s, so I'll take that to mean that it's the end of your problems!!
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Bobubas on March 12, 2007, 04:10:28 PM
Marcus - My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Having met and befriended both Peg and Allsion, it saddens me that they have had medical problems. I'm glad your Mom and Peg are doing better, and I'm sure Allison will recoup as well. Please give her my best for me, she is indeed a way cool girl :)

                             Bob
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: CastleBee on March 12, 2007, 05:19:18 PM
Mark ~

You and your family are on my prayer list. 

God bless!

Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Julianka7 on March 12, 2007, 06:05:30 PM
Dear Mark,
I too will keep Allison and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Julianka
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Annie on March 12, 2007, 09:53:00 PM
Hi Mark keeping your daughter in my prayers that God will heal her soon..
         Love Anne :-*
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Sunny_Collins on March 12, 2007, 11:31:03 PM
I'm so very sorry to hear about all the troubles your family has been experiencing, Mark. You and your wife and daughter, and all your family are in my prayers!

Sincerely, Sunny!
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Jackie on March 13, 2007, 03:04:33 AM
Mark, I send good wishes and speedy recovery to your daughter and especially her parents.  Hang in there!
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: arashi on March 13, 2007, 06:02:51 AM
Hi Mark, I hope this finds you and your family well. My sister also had a blood clot several years ago due to the birth control she was taking, it was a scary incident. I hope your daughter, your wife and your Mother are feeling well soon. You're all in my thoughts and best wishes to all for a swift recovery.
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: jennifer on March 15, 2007, 12:29:09 AM
glad to hear she is in good hands and will stay a little longer in the hospital
they do hurt a lot and BCPs and smoking aren't a good combo but thank god
they were able to catch it and treat it
my thoughts and prayers are with you Mark
jennifer
it is so wonderful to have all the support of the DS "family" with you :)
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: EmeraldRose on March 18, 2007, 08:07:08 AM
Mark...

Sorry for the lateness of this reply.  I just found this thread, and thought the seriousness of this subject warranted my reading and posting attention, even at this late date.

Gosh, that's terrible that the three closest women in your life have had recent health problems!  I hope they are all doing better.  My thoughts are with you. [cheesyg]

----- Sally -----
[coolg]
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Elmont on March 18, 2007, 01:19:10 PM
 I also just found this thread. I wish you and your family all the best.
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: Mark Rainey on March 18, 2007, 03:21:27 PM
Thanks again for all the good wishes. Allison is home and is feeling more or less normal again; the pain is mostly gone, but she's still supposed to take it fairly easy for a while. She's giving herself injections (I believe the drug is called Cumodin), which she'll be on for the foreseeable future. But that seems a small price to pay to get something akin to peace of mind after such an experience.

My mom is recovering pretty well. In fact, I'm at the old homestead this weekend, just to give her a hand around the place. Things look good for a full recovery.

My wife still has more health problems than the law allows. If she were a horse...

 >:D

But we're hanging in there.
Title: Re: OT: Could use some prayers and good wishes
Post by: dom on March 18, 2007, 03:36:29 PM
Glad to hear the good news, Mark!

Hoping all continues to improve for everyone.